If your partner is either much taller or shorter than you, it may take a little maneuvering to get Tab A into Slot B. But what is love without a challenge or two? Here's how to make it work! If y'all are super different heights, most standing positions are pretty much out because physics. Except one. And, if it's not happening, go ahead and use a bar stool to sit on instead.
Soaking Wet Doggy Position
Who doesn't get a little turned on when their partner joins them in the shower? The cascading water, the steam, the delicious aromas wafting through the air, and the spanking-clean, naked skin are total aphrodisiacs. But let's be real: Shower sex ain't easy to pull off. All the same things that make it so hot—the slipperiness, the crammed quarters—also make it logistically challenging. To get it on without slipping and sliding all over the place, try one of these 10 shower sex positions. How to do it: Lean back against the shower wall while your partner stands in front of you—then wrap one leg around their waist or ask them to hold the back of your knee in the crook of their elbow to make this move a little easier on you. From this angle, they can penetrate you, finger you, use a waterproof vibrator, or do pretty much whatever your heart and body desires.
2. Person With A Vulva On Top
When it comes to sex, it's not uncommon for there to be a height difference between partners. But how do you have sex when one partner is substantially taller or shorter than the other? At five feet tall, I'm rather diminutive ; all of my partners have been much, much taller than I am, which at times can present some unique challenges. I'm sure I'm not the only person in this metaphorical boat, though, so in the interest of bonding with everyone who's floating along here with me, here — let's talk about some tips that will make sex between people of dramatically different heights easier. That said, though, you do sometimes have to get a little creative. But hey, if variety is the spice of life? Well, let's just say that it'll definitely add that certain je ne sais quoi to sex. It's also worth noting before we begin that this isn't a hard and fast list of do's and dont's; they're suggestions only. Furthermore, since they're based on my own experiences, I can only speak to heterosexual pairings.
Takeaway: Shower sex is inherently sexy, but if there's one thing that'll make it great, it's the right sex position. What is it about shower sex that gets our juices flowing? After all, if we're thinking about it logically, you and your partner will be attempting to have sex in a small, slippery area, one that often comes with a time limit when the water runs cold! Despite the logical reasons to avoid shower sex let's be real: It can be hot as hell. Is it the sensual feel of warm water droplets dripping down the body we love so much, or the sensuality of getting "dirty" in a place where you're supposed to be getting "clean"? No matter what you love about it, there's one thing that really help make it work and that's the right sex position. Shower sex is not the time for ninja-style sex positions.