If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side. This is the type of doctrine that Joseph rejected and so have the leaders of the church. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. I didn't even believe. The hardest thing is the feeling of being completely shut out.
No one appreciates how demanding it is unless they have lived it, many friends over the years said to me "lucky you, you are married to a Doctor. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. But it turns out I need to understand him more than I should be understood Take care of him more than I should be taken cared of. What can you expect. We have been married a mere 3.
What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life. I had thought after so many years I would find a way to deal with the resentment. It is crucial to recognize that Mormonism has elements of belief, practice, and custom that work to make interfaith marriages especially difficult and inconvenient for both spouses. Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. Love in Different Languages. It's a fair question and you've already been super accommodating. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. If someone is going to cheat on you, it has nothing to do with their profession. The only thing I can say is good luck to all.
But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. Reading all your comments makes me feel sometimes uplifted, other times scared as hell. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage.